Entire universe is an expressive emotion. How that breathes, change over time, transform,die,born, a process which shows the universe is alive around us, within us. Mankind has evolved through similar process. This is unique, largest and we are part of it. Thus the nature has expressed emotion all over. River, sea, meadow, mountain,desert, everything is emotional expression.
Through time, vibration, transformation, changes places of the nature reacted in specific manner. No place is same but unique by nature. we are witness of vast expressed universal emotion before us.
Now look, how our life looks alike. We are also part of summer, winter, drought, fall, broken, fly high, sailing sea, wild, part of forest, mountain, rain, and time. We born to die. In between briefly we enjoy, also suffer. Then realized by life, understand and leave. We’re fixed in rule of the universe. Every part of life is emotional expression. What helps for expression, is atmosphere of emotion’s.
Man gets effected by any kind of event. Anything is happening around, has impact on our emotional atmosphere. No one can escape. One child came from school with extra pencil box. Parents didn’t react much, but understand he picked up it cause he liked. Parents do not want to mess it. They think the kid will not do same. Second time the kid did similar action. Parents must understand and take initiative to make child understand why he should return back. Sometimes what happens, we let it go saying few words to the child or leave not noticing. Therefore parents become responsible for creating an atmosphere in child. Call it ‘root of crime”.
Parents are having specific atmosphere in them, call it suppressed shame. Also it is form of shady atmosphere in them.
Atmosphere of emotion is the stage of expression and suppression. These are under restrictions of social etiquette, customs and creates another type of atmosphere . Call it socio dogmas.
You may have noticed, many among us are really less expressive. You can say some of us habitual not to express right thing at right time. Thus faces misunderstanding in regards of communication. In spite of expression it’s stored in ourselves and find a type of suffocation as suppressed emotion’s. It is another atmosphere of emotion.
Emotion in us two of kind in general view. Mainly rest of the things are included in these two. They are happiness and sorrow. feelings is connection bridge in between . Any kind of feeling offer either happiness or pain. Nothing really different other than two major facts among whole nature. The mankind is all about to be happy or to be sorry.
Now expression of feelings describe happiness, sorrow in a constructive rule of behaviour. When some cases we suppress and never know how to explain ourselves that remains store in sudden surprising behavior.
Basically, that never helps us rather unknowingly comes out during expressions for other matters in odd way. In shape of shame, guilt, hidden conflict, anger, failure, violence, jealousy. Such behaviour may be called as atmosphere of suppression.
Atmosphere of” expressive emotion” behaviour relates to desire, wishing,dreaming, wanting, planning, success, systematic straight forwardness honesty, transparency and adoptabidentity. In regards of happiness these are constructive. Such actions are making atmosphere in us progressive.
Atmosphere of emotion is a stage “how we want something ,feel needy, invent, feeling less ,hurt, jealous, fearful,isolate and joyful”.
That’s why often we say “do not allow anyone to spoil your atmosphere “.
Feeling no guilt after harming someone is a type of suppression behaviour from young early age. Any action out of transparency without knowing that’s a behavior towards conflicts may force to be part of wrong doing.
Certainly there must be a lesson which may define happiness and sorrow. In that case it is important to explain to a child expression is best. In regards what he wants, likes or dislikes and why. We hardly aware and understand it’s a disorder.Something you feel, must be expressed . Also we will have power for accepting or rejecting any expression.
In a skilled manner child should be learned right, wrong and mistakes along with acceptance and rejection. Therefore suppression would not grab him through hidden anger, violence or depression.
One has individual atmosphere in her or him. A blend of emotions, come to action through feelings for happiness and aches.
Better to be expressive,capable of acceptance than keeping suppressed individual inside. Atmosphere of a person starts through above mentioned guilt, wish, wrong right, needs wants ignorance, failure, success and conflict within.
Eventually that spreads into larger way in society. Such atmosphere can help or destroy our close relationship, loved one. Many among us, never speaks ‘happy birthday, or I love you ‘to their close relationships. They think, saying is that much unnecessary, as much necessary to understand obviously they do. No need of expression. It’s a conflict thought. We all expect from each other, because we are human beings. Simple.
Being better expressive,a happy life one has to know when,which atmosphere is getting control over him. Immediately he must counter negative elements with positive elements.
Being satisfied is only possible,when understand feelings will bring joy and aches. Choosing the best choice of action, is skilled habit. That would be possible only after we accept our inner emotional atmospheres and care in a way of balanced diet.
Each emotion is equally important in relationship with opposite one. From early age practice to be skilled to keep our inner atmosphere clean is best. When you start to act for best atmosphere without being judgemental, you find self.
At the end, I must say “always one type of category finds a way out to destroy opposite category of other category, to be survived or being hidden shame. Success destroy failure, and guilt destroys confession in true living life.” So? I key of keeping inner atmosphere productive, we must pick up wanting with purpose, wish with planning, success after failure.